Every year we try to improve ourselves by pretending that the next year offers a second (third, fourth…) chance. In fact it is the here and now… every second… which offers itself to you to mold as you will. With this in mind, allow yourself to fail in 2010. Fail and try again. The commitment it takes to change habits or take on big projects or just to simply be a parent is gigantic and if we don’t allow ourselves to get it wrong every once in a while we will be doomed to a life without challenge or success. Here are some things I will take on in 2010… maybe more than once.